Achieving any goal is a very dynamic process where success is closely related to the amount of effort and energy invested in achieving said goal. It requires, passion, perseverance, rigour, commitment and a pretty strong will at times. These seem to be the the driving forces in terms of achievement but it is not the complete picture. I would like to shift the focus to the softer, often overlooked, skill of letting go. At some point on our journey toward that shiny goal, we w

Too often We are tempted to look at life in a polarized way where things are either black or white. Life seldom conforms to such a life view and a lot of opportunity ends up passing us by. More often than not life is beautifully juicy and leans itself more to a ‘both-and’ philosophy. So the challenge is to be willing to hold both polar opposites and be comfortable with the space in between. Polarity says that I can have fun as soon as I meet my deadline. I can go on a famil